A rather handy solution to the sleepy female/awake-and-erect male syndrome. Originally used as a method of birth control and to preserve virginity, “femoral intercourse” involves you thrusting your penis between her closed thighs instead of inside her vagina. It’s a gentle, non-invasive way to have sex, and it keeps both of you satisfied. If you place your penis near the top of her thighs so it slides in between the vaginal lips, sleepy female can rapidly turn into wide awake, horny female!
Ask her the finger
Believe me, boys, you’ll be exceedingly lucky to have the guts to ask for it. Every guy I’ve done this to asks for it more and more. The G-spot is just there, all you have to do is ask your girlfriend to find it…as you go and find hers.
Believe me, boys, you’ll be exceedingly lucky to have the guts to ask for it. Every guy I’ve done this to asks for it more and more. The G-spot is just there, all you have to do is ask your girlfriend to find it…as you go and find hers.
Remember that position counts
Is she left-handed or right-handed? Never underestimate the symmetry of the body: If she is left-handed then the left side of her upper extremities is more sensitive. Upper extremities—meaning ears lobes, neck, nipples, shoulders. They say left-handed people are very creative, and instilling a more artistic exhibition on lovemaking will be more than appreciated. Inculcate this into your lovemaking.
Is she left-handed or right-handed? Never underestimate the symmetry of the body: If she is left-handed then the left side of her upper extremities is more sensitive. Upper extremities—meaning ears lobes, neck, nipples, shoulders. They say left-handed people are very creative, and instilling a more artistic exhibition on lovemaking will be more than appreciated. Inculcate this into your lovemaking.
Spare me some slippery stuff
When you do your own five-finger salute and it isn’t lubricated, it can feel uncomfortable instead of erotic. So when you’re in the heat of the moment, ask for her saliva. Don’t be embarrassed to ask her to spit on it. What do you know? You might get a little extra…
When you do your own five-finger salute and it isn’t lubricated, it can feel uncomfortable instead of erotic. So when you’re in the heat of the moment, ask for her saliva. Don’t be embarrassed to ask her to spit on it. What do you know? You might get a little extra…
Ask to meet her vibrator
One of you holding a vibrator over the clitoral area during penetrative sex is the most effective way to ensure a shared orgasmic experience. Me? I use it as much as I use my toothbrush. Why don’t everyone?
One of you holding a vibrator over the clitoral area during penetrative sex is the most effective way to ensure a shared orgasmic experience. Me? I use it as much as I use my toothbrush. Why don’t everyone?
Build bridges
If your goal is to achieve simultaneous orgasms, use the technique most sex therapists recommend. The idea is to give clitoral stimulation almost right up to the point of orgasm and then thrust her to trigger the final orgasmic reflex. This effectively provides a “bridge” between clitoral stimulation and intercourse. Studies show that up to half of women who couldn’t previously climax through penetration alone gained that ability after using this technique regularly.
If your goal is to achieve simultaneous orgasms, use the technique most sex therapists recommend. The idea is to give clitoral stimulation almost right up to the point of orgasm and then thrust her to trigger the final orgasmic reflex. This effectively provides a “bridge” between clitoral stimulation and intercourse. Studies show that up to half of women who couldn’t previously climax through penetration alone gained that ability after using this technique regularly.
Trigger orgasm
The more your brain travels a certain path neurologically, the more effortless it becomes. The act of smiling—actually curving your lips upward—triggers the release of serotonin, a hormone that makes you feel happy. The same applies to orgasm: The more signals of impending orgasm to your brain, the easier it will be to trigger the orgasmic response. Focus on the things you naturally do on approach to orgasm—sounds you make, how you move—then exaggerate them.
The more your brain travels a certain path neurologically, the more effortless it becomes. The act of smiling—actually curving your lips upward—triggers the release of serotonin, a hormone that makes you feel happy. The same applies to orgasm: The more signals of impending orgasm to your brain, the easier it will be to trigger the orgasmic response. Focus on the things you naturally do on approach to orgasm—sounds you make, how you move—then exaggerate them.
Ask instructions
The woman’s sexual system is complicated. It would be like saying you only need to be pretty good at math to be a rocket scientist! On the other hand, your sexual system is simple. If you don’t have any clue how to touch her, then ask her to show you how—and I mean when, where, how hard, how fast…in as much detail as possible. It’s seriously not half as embarrassing as you think it is. Try simply opening your ears to hear a little moan and know she’s enjoying what you’re doing.
The woman’s sexual system is complicated. It would be like saying you only need to be pretty good at math to be a rocket scientist! On the other hand, your sexual system is simple. If you don’t have any clue how to touch her, then ask her to show you how—and I mean when, where, how hard, how fast…in as much detail as possible. It’s seriously not half as embarrassing as you think it is. Try simply opening your ears to hear a little moan and know she’s enjoying what you’re doing.
The cuddle trick
Some men still aren’t as verbose or as comfortable with expressing emotion as women are. Sex tends to be used as a means of showing their love and feeling close to us women. Men often have sex to feel wanted. It’s true, sex for a man appears to be his primal form of giving. If you really want to say “I love you,” you may suggest sex. So when your partner rejects sex with you, she’s not just rejecting the sex. Adopt a new philosophy: When she says no, tell her you just want to cuddle, and as we all know spooning can prelude to sex.
Some men still aren’t as verbose or as comfortable with expressing emotion as women are. Sex tends to be used as a means of showing their love and feeling close to us women. Men often have sex to feel wanted. It’s true, sex for a man appears to be his primal form of giving. If you really want to say “I love you,” you may suggest sex. So when your partner rejects sex with you, she’s not just rejecting the sex. Adopt a new philosophy: When she says no, tell her you just want to cuddle, and as we all know spooning can prelude to sex.
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